I recently had the opportunity to record a podcast episode with my teammate, Lauren Beane, on her podcast Ready Enough. Ready Enough is a podcast all about empowering women to take action, build confidence, and chase goals–no perfect plan required. And true to the podcast’s message, I actually reached out to Lauren (I wasn’t about to wait for her to reach out to me because that day may have never come!) to pitch an episode to her about manifesting the career you want. You can listen to the podcast here and read more below about how I manifested the career I wanted.
šāØ But Wait⦠Isnāt Manifesting Sort of⦠Woo-Woo? āØš
The word manifesting can sometimes turn people off because it sounds a little āwoo-woo.ā If thatās how it feels to you, think of it instead as setting an intention.
When youāve done the real workāreflecting on what you want and narrowing your focusāyouāre creating an intention. Thatās manifesting. And when you set an intention, your mind naturally starts spotting opportunities you might have overlooked before.
This isnāt magic; itās science. ⨠Itās your reticular activating system at work. Think of it like when you decide you want a blue truckāand suddenly, you start seeing blue trucks everywhere. šš
š How I Used Manifesting to Become a Leader š
Manifesting isnāt about luck, chance, or waiting for something outside of you to change. Itās about becoming the person who already has what you desire.
When I set my sights on a leadership role, I started āacting as if.ā I asked myself: āWhat would a leader do?ā And if I didnāt know, I studied leaders around me. I noticed what books they were readingāso I read them too. I watched how they showed up in meetings, what kinds of questions they asked, how they managed conflict, how they delegated.
š® Quantum Leaping Exercise:
Imagine visiting your future selfāone year, five years, ten years from now. This future-you has already become the leader you want to be. Ask her:
⨠Whatās one habit you had to start?
⨠Whatās one habit you had to stop?
⨠Whatās one piece of advice youād give me right now?
(š” Pro tip: if you struggle to visualize, use AIāupload a picture of yourself and say, āMake me look like a leader at a large tech company.ā)



(Okay sorry that last one is obviously not me as a leader at a tech company but I couldn’t resist.)
Iāve even applied this to my fitness journey. For the past two years, Iāve asked myself: āWhat would my fittest, healthiest self do?ā She doesnāt skip workouts. She cooks at home. And by choosing as herānot current-meāIāve created different outcomes.
The same works for leadership. At Cisco, I noticed senior leaders contributing thought leadership on Cisco.com. So I thought: If I want to be seen as a leader, I should do that too. And I did. Most people wonāt put in the extra effortābut when you do, you stand out. š
š Dealing with Imposter Syndrome š
How do you step into something youāve never done before? How do you let go of the familiar and embrace the unknown?
In my Cisco bio, I wrote that my three favorite words are: create, learn, and gin. I try to do the first two daily (and the third in moderation šø).
Because Iām committed to learning, I approach the unknown differently. No matter what happens, Iāll come out the other side leveled up.
When I stepped into a business architect role on an orchestration engineering team, I was intimidated. I didnāt come from a traditional tech backgroundāI studied journalism and political science, and started in digital marketing. I worried I wasnāt ātechnical enough.ā
But I wanted to be. So I told myself: āEven if Iām the least technical person on this team, Iām the least technical person on the smartest team.ā
As it turned out, my skill set was exactly what the team needed. And instead of being ānot technical enough,ā I quickly became someone my manager considered critical to retain. š
š„ When the Universe Turns the Page for You š„
Sometimes I wasnāt ready for my next chapterābut the universe had other plans.
Cisco, like many companies, has had its fair share of layoffs (or as they call it, limited restructuring). After one, I joked on LinkedIn: āGetting laid off is not my preferred way to get laid, but here we are.ā
Iāve been impacted not once, but twice.
š« The first time, I moved from demand generation into Customer Experience (CX). Demand gen felt oversaturated, while CX had more room for innovation. It ended up being a better fit and set the foundation for where I am now.
š« The second time turned out to be one of the best things that ever happened to me. I joined a Cisco team under a leader I adored, earned three raises, a promotion, a leadership role, my dream job in innovation, and travel opportunities I wouldnāt have otherwise had.
Ohāand I got a pretty sick phoenix tattoo during my āfunemployment.ā š¤š„ A permanent reminder: Iāll always rise.

As Mike āThe Situationā Sorrentino from Jersey Shore says: āThe comeback is greater than the setback.ā
My version? āMaking a comeback is my second favorite way to come.ā šāØ
š Having the Audacity š
A lot of our fear comes from worrying about what others will think.
We wonder: āWho does she think she is?ā
But hereās the thing: Mel Robbinsā book Let Them has gone viral for a reason. It works. The next time you feel that fear, say: āLet them.ā
⨠Let them question who I think I am.
⨠Let me do what I know it takes to achieve my goals.
When an old Cisco teammate asked me how Iād gotten more confident, my answer was simple: I started living with audacity.
š¼ Career? Of course I deserve this leadership roleāI deliver results, I bring a unique blend of experience, Iām connected, and Iāve built strong relationships.
š Dating? Of course Iām attractive enough to talk to the hot guy. (Side note: that hot guy is now my boyfriend š).
Audacity changes everything. šāØ
š Are You Ready Enough? š
āReady enoughā means thereās already a version of you out there in the quantum field who is ready.
For me, that version was a leader. I didnāt have to chase her. I just had to step into her shoes.
When you act like the version of you who already has what you desire, you start attracting it like a magnet. āØ
Manifesting isnāt about luck or waiting for outside forces to change. Itās about becoming the person who already is.
So step into that version of yourselfā
because youāre not just āready enough.ā
š Youāre ready. š
















