I recently had the opportunity to record a podcast episode with my teammate, Lauren Beane, on her podcast Ready Enough. Ready Enough is a podcast all about empowering women to take action, build confidence, and chase goals–no perfect plan required. And true to the podcast’s message, I actually reached out to Lauren (I wasn’t about to wait for her to reach out to me because that day may have never come!) to pitch an episode to her about manifesting the career you want. You can listen to the podcast here and read more below about how I manifested the career I wanted.
đâš But Wait⊠Isnât Manifesting Sort of⊠Woo-Woo? âšđ
The word manifesting can sometimes turn people off because it sounds a little âwoo-woo.â If thatâs how it feels to you, think of it instead as setting an intention.
When youâve done the real workâreflecting on what you want and narrowing your focusâyouâre creating an intention. Thatâs manifesting. And when you set an intention, your mind naturally starts spotting opportunities you might have overlooked before.
This isnât magic; itâs science. âš Itâs your reticular activating system at work. Think of it like when you decide you want a blue truckâand suddenly, you start seeing blue trucks everywhere. đđ
đ How I Used Manifesting to Become a Leader đ
Manifesting isnât about luck, chance, or waiting for something outside of you to change. Itâs about becoming the person who already has what you desire.
When I set my sights on a leadership role, I started âacting as if.â I asked myself: âWhat would a leader do?â And if I didnât know, I studied leaders around me. I noticed what books they were readingâso I read them too. I watched how they showed up in meetings, what kinds of questions they asked, how they managed conflict, how they delegated.
đź Quantum Leaping Exercise:
Imagine visiting your future selfâone year, five years, ten years from now. This future-you has already become the leader you want to be. Ask her:
âš Whatâs one habit you had to start?
âš Whatâs one habit you had to stop?
âš Whatâs one piece of advice youâd give me right now?
(đĄ Pro tip: if you struggle to visualize, use AIâupload a picture of yourself and say, âMake me look like a leader at a large tech company.â)



(Okay sorry that last one is obviously not me as a leader at a tech company but I couldn’t resist.)
Iâve even applied this to my fitness journey. For the past two years, Iâve asked myself: âWhat would my fittest, healthiest self do?â She doesnât skip workouts. She cooks at home. And by choosing as herânot current-meâIâve created different outcomes.
The same works for leadership. At Cisco, I noticed senior leaders contributing thought leadership on Cisco.com. So I thought: If I want to be seen as a leader, I should do that too. And I did. Most people wonât put in the extra effortâbut when you do, you stand out. đ
đ Dealing with Imposter Syndrome đ
How do you step into something youâve never done before? How do you let go of the familiar and embrace the unknown?
In my Cisco bio, I wrote that my three favorite words are: create, learn, and gin. I try to do the first two daily (and the third in moderation đž).
Because Iâm committed to learning, I approach the unknown differently. No matter what happens, Iâll come out the other side leveled up.
When I stepped into a business architect role on an orchestration engineering team, I was intimidated. I didnât come from a traditional tech backgroundâI studied journalism and political science, and started in digital marketing. I worried I wasnât âtechnical enough.â
But I wanted to be. So I told myself: âEven if Iâm the least technical person on this team, Iâm the least technical person on the smartest team.â
As it turned out, my skill set was exactly what the team needed. And instead of being ânot technical enough,â I quickly became someone my manager considered critical to retain. đ
đ„ When the Universe Turns the Page for You đ„
Sometimes I wasnât ready for my next chapterâbut the universe had other plans.
Cisco, like many companies, has had its fair share of layoffs (or as they call it, limited restructuring). After one, I joked on LinkedIn: âGetting laid off is not my preferred way to get laid, but here we are.â
Iâve been impacted not once, but twice.
đ« The first time, I moved from demand generation into Customer Experience (CX). Demand gen felt oversaturated, while CX had more room for innovation. It ended up being a better fit and set the foundation for where I am now.
đ« The second time turned out to be one of the best things that ever happened to me. I joined a Cisco team under a leader I adored, earned three raises, a promotion, a leadership role, my dream job in innovation, and travel opportunities I wouldnât have otherwise had.
Ohâand I got a pretty sick phoenix tattoo during my âfunemployment.â đ€đ„ A permanent reminder: Iâll always rise.

As Mike âThe Situationâ Sorrentino from Jersey Shore says: âThe comeback is greater than the setback.â
My version? âMaking a comeback is my second favorite way to come.â đâš
đ Having the Audacity đ
A lot of our fear comes from worrying about what others will think.
We wonder: âWho does she think she is?â
But hereâs the thing: Mel Robbinsâ book Let Them has gone viral for a reason. It works. The next time you feel that fear, say: âLet them.â
âš Let them question who I think I am.
âš Let me do what I know it takes to achieve my goals.
When an old Cisco teammate asked me how Iâd gotten more confident, my answer was simple: I started living with audacity.
đŒ Career? Of course I deserve this leadership roleâI deliver results, I bring a unique blend of experience, Iâm connected, and Iâve built strong relationships.
đ Dating? Of course Iâm attractive enough to talk to the hot guy. (Side note: that hot guy is now my boyfriend đ).
Audacity changes everything. đâš
đ Are You Ready Enough? đ
âReady enoughâ means thereâs already a version of you out there in the quantum field who is ready.
For me, that version was a leader. I didnât have to chase her. I just had to step into her shoes.
When you act like the version of you who already has what you desire, you start attracting it like a magnet. âš
Manifesting isnât about luck or waiting for outside forces to change. Itâs about becoming the person who already is.
So step into that version of yourselfâ
because youâre not just âready enough.â
đ Youâre ready. đ